What's it like?

What's it like to be an almost 25 year old female who is going nowhere fast in life?

Well, to be honest, it's quite exhausting. I have the constant fear that I am being judged because I work in a dead end job in a restaurant, and I live at home with my parents, and I have a college degree that I don't use.

After degree number 1 failed to get me to where I was going, I decided to jump ship and go another route. "Let's trying this again," type of deal. The first was just a practice run, as I like to tell people. Hopefully, this second one will put me on the path that I want to go: working with children.

My job is about as worthless as they come. It's a place to make little money fast. No, not decent money, but little money. People think servers make so much money, maybe in other places, but not where I work. I make roughly $1.50 per person that I wait on. "WOW!," you think. WRONG. I wait on anywhere from 30 people to 70 people in a day, depending on the day, and some days I only end up making $1.25 per person. That means I would literally have to work from open to close to be able to afford anything. And my paycheck? Well that is a joke in itself. I made $2.83 and hour. That just goes towards taxes. The other times I work, I only make $8 an hour, and I have been at that job for 5 years; who needs a raise anyway?

I think it is more frustrating to have people ask if I still live at home as opposed to being asked if I am single. Hell yeah I am single. Ask me again, I'll give you the same answer. But ask me if I live at home, and my answer will sound defeated.

But is that fair? Eh, maybe, maybe not. Today's society is so expensive and people are making less money than they did back then. It's a breath of fresh air when someone tells you that they understand that it is expensive to be young. Yeah it's expensive to be young. My tuition for next semester is $250, and then my books are $120. That's just $370 I need to make in a few weeks, where I am only making $60 a night when I work. That doesn't include anything else I may need money for. Like food, gas, insurance, my phone, or whatever else be the case. It is sad when I have to think, "is this purchase worth the stress I am about to cause myself?" Usually I just spend the money anyway and then fret how I am going to make it up later.

I shouldn't have to worry about money and the stress of it all at only 25 years old. It's not fair, and it's not right. I shouldn't feel bad about living at home when I am trying to better my life and better my future--by going to school.

So the next time someone asks me if I still live at home, I am going to ask them if they are still breathing. And when they tell me yes, I will just stare at them blankly. Why? Because I can and you're stupid for even asking me that question. :')

Tits everywhere

I first would like to point out that I am nowhere against boobs.. Or anything that they do. I love my boobs, to be honest. But to also be honest, I don't want to see other ladies and their tits hanging out.

I understand that breastfeeding is trying to come into it's own right now. All these young mothers are trying to take the stigma away that it is gross, when in reality it is as natural as taking a poop. Not a good comparison, but you get the point.

Mothers are saying that it is beautiful and they enjoy the bond that they share with their babes.

My ass.. It's beautiful. I love the bond it and myself have. However, you don't see me sharing it on facebook, but keep it up, and you just might.

While tits are a body part and if people don't like it they should look away, let's compare it to something else, shall we? BUTT CRACKS. We all have one, we all wear pants (most times), and sometimes our undies just don't do the job and they stick out. People "ew" and "gross" when they see a butt crack. Or they laugh hysterically and tell people to pull up their pants. Why? It's natural, we all have one. Why is it okay to shame someone for their booty to be hanging out but it is NOT okay to shame a person who is breast feeding?

While what you're doing is a natural thing, so is having an ass; seeing a crack is gross but seeing tits is not. WHY?! Why is that how it works?

I get it. The bond is special. You are enjoying your time. It doesn't last a lifetime. Blah, blah, blah. Instead of taking a damn picture of your tit and nipple hanging out, why don't you PUT THE PHONE DOWN AND CUDDLE AND FEED YOUR DAMN CHILD?!?!

Again, I will say, that I am not against boobs or breastfeeding. I am just against the fact that women everywhere are torn down for posting provocative photos of themselves, and to be honest ladies, you're not helping our case by flashing your tits everywhere.

Working out, working IT out ;)

Okay, time to switch gears here. Let's talk about something that I have fallen in love with recently..
Yup, WORKING OUT!

Why do I like working out? Well, for a number of reasons. My clothes fit better. I have more energy, or as much energy as someone with low iron can have. I feel good. And I look even better.

Come on ladies, let's get real. Who wouldn't want to look better? We all would. It's just who we are. We compare ourselves to other females. Do I do that? Sure. But not as much as I did in the past. I feel so good about myself and the way that I look.

So what does that mean? Why does the title mean? Well, working out has one big perk. One big perk that the fellas will like. My sex drive is OFF THE CHARTS! I want it. All hours. Every hour. Every day. Yup, that's how good working out makes me feel.

So why? Well, because when you look good and feel good, you want to share that with others. Plus, working out releases hormones that just get our blood pumping and makes us horny. Yup, that's right. Working out makes people horny.

I guess this means that I need to go to a gym to find a man. ;)

I think working out and being horny is a plus. When you're feeling good, and feeling goood ;), why wouldn't you want to share that with someone that you are close to?

So, my advice to you is to get out there. Get working out. Work your booty out. Work your body out. Then go have some amazingly hot sex! ;)